I am glad I found this group. I just re-read Iron John and Fire in the Belly. When I first read the book about 13 years ago, it helped. But re-reading recently, it helped in a different way. I learned some things about how I was dealing with my mom and dad. I am now trying to deal with him first. I also notice how I deal with men and women and am now trying to reach out and develop more male friends. This tribe can help.